Divorce Without Devastation,
Divorce With Dignity



I’m thinking about getting a divorce.
I want a Divorce, what do I do next?
My spouse wants a Divorce, what do I do next?


I’m okay, things are going my way – I think?
I feel like I’m in a losing battle. I need help!
Typical mistake made during the divorce.


Don’t just survive, learn to thrive.
Seek out a support network.
Redefine Yourself
Minimize the Impact on Kids

So you are divorced now what…

Your marriage is over but your life does not have to be! The fact that you are here proves that you are a survivor! How can D.I.V.A.S. help you now? First of all, just know you are not alone! Let us help you rebuild!

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How can you start this new chapter?

If you are divorcing let’s just face the facts…The fact is that people do not marry to get divorced! The fact is that it is not the easy way out! However it is also a fact that you are not alone!

Next Steps

What do you need to do now?

If you are separated you have probably came to the realization that your previous relationship was not perfect. At D.I.V.A.S. we do not encourage divorce however we understand that sometimes there is not an alternative!

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What do I do next?

If you are currently married and visiting this site there is a chance that you are looking for answers. D.I.V.A.S. wants to help you get those answers.

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Get Answers to Your Questions

Just after your divorce you probably thought, “I am glad that is done and I do not think I will ever get married again!” That is a natural reaction just after divorce but here you are in love again…The fact is many people do remarry after divorce. However, the alarming fact is that second and third marriages have an alarming divorce rate.

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Can you be sure that this one will last?

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